Shy and Fearful Dogs

There are three main components that shape a dog's personality. They are genetics, puppy socialization and experience. Puppies that are born to parents that are fearful themselves may have a genetic disposition to fear. Also, puppies that are not adequately socialized, especially in the first four months of life, to lots of new experiences and environments can suffer from a lack of experience just as much as a puppy who has had a bad experience.

There are many ways you can help a dog that is shy and fearful. One thing that is key is that you are patience. Being able to recognize the signs can go a long way to helping your dog relax and feel more comfortable in their environment.

Signs your dog is scared, nervous, anxious or fearful:

• Rapid panting, licking lips or tongue flicking, whining, excessive drooling
• Shaking, trembling, cowering and/or hiding
• Tail low or tucked
• Ears pulled flat against their head
• Pacing or hypervigilance (looking for an escape route)
• Yawning (when not tired)
• Submissive urination or defecation
• Freezing in place, not moving
• Showing teeth, growling or barking
• Avoiding touch, creating distance
• Paw lifts
• Turning away (head and/or body)
• Not eating or taking treats
• Putting on the brakes on leash, or refusing to walk through doors

Things you can do to help a shy or fearful dog:

• Set up a safe space for them in a quiet area of the house. You can do this by using baby gates or setting a room in the house just for them. Provide water and food, bedding and a crate with the door open along with soft music.
• Giving them time to adjust and relax to their new surroundings. Avoid having guests over or throwing a party.
• Approach them from the side and not head on. Bend at the knees instead of the waist so you appear less threatening.
• Speak softly and remember less is more.
• Sit on the floor, facing slightly away from your dog. Try tossing extra yummy treats in their direction.
• Let your dog approach you. Watch for body language from the corner of your eye.
• Never pull your dog out of their hiding space or force your dog on their leash to go somewhere.
• Allow your dog to make the choice to meet new people and instruct guests the same.

Building your dogs confidence is key and it may take longer for some dogs than others to get to that point. Hire a trainer that can address these issues and teach you the tools to make your dog the best that they can be. It will take time, however, it will be very rewarding in the end.